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The #1 Thing People Misunderstand About BPD

Understand why the same moment can feel so different to two people, and reflect on what to do next.

For people living with BPD, loved ones, and clinicians.

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Inside the guide

The Reality Gap
A way to understand why two people can leave the same interaction with different accounts of what happened.

The Reality Bridge
Questions that help you explore the facts, assumptions, experiences, and responses in a difficult moment.

Map the Moment
A two-page worksheet to help you reflect on one manageable interaction and consider a next step.

These original frameworks are for education and reflection. They do not replace clinical assessment, treatment, or safety support, and they do not excuse harm.

The cover of the free guide, The #1 Thing People Misunderstand About BPD, by Dr. Courtney Tracy.
Preview of Map the Moment worksheet page one: prompts for exploring my side and their side of one interaction.